I Love Being A Dad

iPad is not iDad (lame caption . . . sorry)

I read this post from CNN/Wired: “5 Reasons why the iPad was made for parents” http://tinyurl.com/65nvfv2

I agree that the iPad is a great help in parenting.  But I don’t think that it should ever be used to replace a parents role.  I’ve used the device to help entertain my kids, and help them pass the time.  But I think one of the most important things about being a parent is dealing with how your kids interrupt your plans.  It’s not really your kids job to care about whether or not you get to watch the game.

Also I think a big part of raising kids is helping them to discover how to handle their time when they are bored.  They don’t need to be sitting in front of a screen all the time, even if it is “helping them learn to read.”  You know what else will help them learn to read?  Actual books and you reading them to your kids.

I love technology, but I love my kids more.  I want my kids to love me more than they love my iPad.  I want my kids to have fond memories of me reading Fantastic Mr. Fox to them, not a computer reading to them.

(photo: from above link)

Baptisms

courtesy www.glbbc.orgWe are getting ready to do a baptism celebration this Sunday.  We are combining all of our gatherings into one 10 am gathering.  We are going to celebrate the work that God is doing in drawing people into his grace, that is made available through Jesus’s death and resurrection.  We will hear the gospel story told over and over and over again.  And we will truly celebrate the things that God has done together in community.  It’s going to be an awesome day at Creekside.

Obvious to you. Amazing to others

First saw this video @loswhit’s blog here: http://www.ragamuffinsoul.com/2011/06/obvious/

I thought I would share it to

I love to play with ideas, and I am also my worst critic on my ideas. There are a lot of things in my brain that I just dismiss as simple or boring or obvious.

What about you? What ideas are you shutting down before they even see the light of day?

Super Secret Base

Hey everybody!

Jeremy, Mike and myself have started a podcast.  It’s called Super Secret Base.  Right now you can access it at supersecretbase.com, and as soon as it’s available on iTunes I’ll let you know.  But go check it out, download it, listen to it, and give us feedback: info@supersecretbase.com.

It’s super rad!

//update – the podcast is now available on iTunes: http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/supersecretbase/id447276455

I’d Rather

“If there were no hereafter, I would still prefer to be a Christian, and the humblest Christian minister, to being a king or an emperor, for I am persuaded there are more delights in Christ, yea, more joy in one glimpse of His face than is to be found in all the praises of this harlot-world, and in all the delights which it can yield to us in its sunniest and brightest days. And I am persuaded that what He has been till now, He will be to the end; and where He hath begun a good work, He will carry it on.”

From Spurgeon’s autobiography pg.114-115.

On Preaching pt.1 – Not An Expert

[i’m going to try to do a writing series.  this is something i haven’t done before, but this is the first part of a series On Preaching]

 

On Preaching pt.1

 Not an Expert

I will be the first to say that I am no expert on preaching.  To which you might say, then why am I reading this?  That is a great question.  And I will answer it with another question, who truly is an expert on preaching?  And here’s another question for preachers, are you an expert on everything you talk about on a Sunday morning?

No.

You are not an expert on everything that you talk about in your sermon.

You are not an expert on

. . . parenting

. . . marriage

. . . money

. . . sex

. . . theology

. . . ____________

The challenge with being a preacher is that we get up on the platform every week and we are expected to be the expert on whatever we are talking about.  For the most part that expectation is our own fault.  We want to do come across as smart, educated and prepared on whatever topic we have to work through.

But how can we possible be experts on so many things?  Honestly?  How can we be experts on so many different topics?

This is a typical schedule for most preachers.

Sunday – Preach a sermon (one, two, three, even four times)

Monday – Recover from Sunday and get read for next weeks sermon

Meet with three staff members

Evening – Pre-marriage counseling

Tuesday – Morning – Staff meeting 9-11 (could go longer than that)

Afternoon – Work on sermon research and writing

Wednesday – Morning meet with missionary

Lunch Meet with some small group leaders

Afternoon – Meet with creative team.

Thursday – Morning – Prepreach sermon notes

before lunch – revise notes.  Go over them again

Afternoon – meet with a couple whose marriage is falling apart

Friday – Sabbath – Don’t work (Funerals and Weddings still happen on these days)

Saturday – See Friday (days off are good)

That’s a typical week.  That’s generous for amount of time that could actually be set aside for most pastors and their sermon preparation.

So let’s be honest preachers, we are not experts.  I am not an expert on preaching, and neither are you.  At best we are all on various stages of studentship when it comes to preaching.  We are all learning along the way.  Are we okay with that?  Are we okay with being honest with ourselves to say that we are learning as we go?  Are we okay with saying, that not every sermon is going to be the best sermon that we ever preached?  Are we okay with getting in front of our congregation and saying, you know what, I’m not an expert at this topic for this sunday, but here is what the Bible says, and here is how I read this and these are some applications that I think God wants me to say to you.

Are we okay with that?  Are we okay with not being experts?

If you are starting a Grad Progam

I’m nearing completion of my grad program.  1 Class and my Thesis are all that stands in my way.  If you are starting a program, I would like to give you some advice that I wish someone would have given to me.  Or maybe I should have asked for advice and listened to people.

First, take a lot of notes.  Notes about your reading, notes in your classes, notes about what you is changing in you in your program.  If you are like me, you started a grad program because you thought you were pretty smart already.  And if you are like me then you will realize as you get closer to the end of your journey you have way more to learn then you ever realized.  Taking good notes along the way will help you to reflect on the journey.

Second, get organized.  You need a system for how to handle all the information that you are collecting.  If you are primarily dealing with digital documents (PDF’s, word docs, powerpoint presentation) then develop a system for filing those documents so that things are easy to find.  I have a folder NU MATC docs.  Within that folder I have 4 Folders: Year 1, Year 2, Year 3, and Thesis.  In each of those folders I have sub folders For each semester of that year.  And then I have the classes that I took in each semester.  Finally I have folders like, Notes & Handouts, Research, Papers, Assessments.  If you want my notes from “The Meaning Of Christian Community” I can go right to them.  And that has proven to be incredibly helpful.

Getting organized is even more important (I have found) as you begin to work more independently.  No one is going to organize your thesis research for you, and you will have a lot of information to process, catalog, and access.  If you are not intentional then you will get yourself lost.

When you are working with your thesis research, title your notes in such a way that you can find a book that you read, and the notes on that book quickly. I use this title formula for all of my Reading Notes.  Author Last Name-Title Books-Reading notes.  I then file those in folders labeled, Article Reading Notes, Book Reading Notes, Web Reading notes.

The top of all of those documents has the bibliographic information.  Before you read anything from that resource, right the bibliographic information.  Do it.  Unless you plan on purchasing every book that you read for your thesis then you will not always have immediate access to that bibliographic information.  So get all of that info right on top of the document will save you a lot of time in the long run.  Trust me.

Third, Build a Research Rhythm.  You could also say create a realiable practice for research.  Where do you read with the most focus?  What kind of light do you prefer?  What kind of environment? What time of day?  These are all important questions and if you can begin to build into your day times when you know you can do your best research then you will be poised to work and focus.  I have found that if I just try to squeeze in some research time then I have to go back and review a lot more of what I’ve already done.  Not worth it.  If you are best poised to research at 4am then get up, make your coffee, and make it happen.  If you are a night owl (like me) and can stay up until 1am reading and writing then do that.  You have to figure out your rhythm and then play in that groove.

Four, write a lot.  You will end up writing much more than you need to.  But you need to write.  One of the great values of writing a lot is that it gets all of the bad ideas out on paper and out of your head.  So write.  Edit later, you never know what you might stumble upon if you write.  Capture your ideas when they strike and set aside the time to write them out.

Five, ask questions.  Your prof puts his or her email address in the syllabus for a reason.  You pay them to teach you and to answer your questions.  So ask questions.  If you need clarity on an assignment ask immediately.  Don’t assume that everyone understands the assignment, don’t assume that your question is dumb.  Ask questions.  There I times that I didn’t ask questions and I did way too much work, and then times when I’ve asked the right questions early in the assignment and saved myself a done of work and frustration.  Ask questions.

Six, invest in things that will help you.  Bible software has been a great help for me overall, but I’ve also really been helped by my e-reader, my iPad, my iPhone (i take pictures of pages in books that I file away for later).  And the latest things that has great potential to be a great help for me is a C-Pen.  It’s a pen scanner.  I’ve spent hours transcribing notes from the books that I’ve read.  Hours.  The C-Pen scans your books and put them in a text file that you can edit, copy and paste, and all that.  Awesome!  If you are looking to by one thing for your grad program I would advise something like the C-Pen.  It will save your sanity!

This is from the C-Pen:

The distinction of the Head from the body and the superiority of the Head over the body find concrete expression in the fact that proclamation in the Church is confronted by a factor which is very like it as a phenomenon, which is temporal as it is, and yet which is different from it and in order superior to it. This factor is Holy Scripture.

-K. Barth Church Dogmatics I.1 pg. 101

That is with underlines.  Pretty rad.  Go buy yourself a C-Pen.  You will be saved hours and hours of time.  Do it.

If you are starting a grad program then I think these would be helpful things to keep in mind.  But I do believe that everyone is designed to be learners.  All of these tips I really believe could be helpful for you and your learning practice.

Spinning Wheels

I hate when I feel like I am wasting my time.  I work and work and work on something (in this case an assignment for school) and half way through I realize that this assignment is busy work.  But if I don’t do it I won’t pass the class, and if I don’t pass the class then I’m a doofus, so to create the illusion of progress I press the accelerator but there is not traction between my tires and the ground and I just spin my wheels.

I don’t mind throwing hours behind something that I know will get me somewhere.  I don’t mind hard work.  But I hate it when I don’t feel like there is any progress.  Frustrating.  This is the only time in my entire masters program that I have felt this level of frustration with an assignment.  I feel like I’ve benefited from every single reading assignment and project up to this one.

So I’m going to turn this assignment in . . . frustrated with it.

So yeah . . . just venting.  And since this is my blog I’ll write whatever I want!

Boom Roasted!